Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.
William Arthur Ward
The simple act of saying ‘thank you for being there for me’ while the person is still alive to hear it could be one of the most impactful ways of expressing gratitude to others.
It’s ironic how we hear such heartfelt words of gratitude for loved ones in memorials and eulogies, but not as often when they were still present with us.
It makes you wonder why we don’t do it more often. Is it because we simply assume they know we are grateful? Or is it that we don’t realize how much they mattered until it was too late? What was holding us back?
When we express gratitude on ordinary days, the effect is felt much more profoundly. Whether it is in a text message, a handwritten note, an unexpected phone call, or when we are with them at the moment.
I think of those who made a difference in my life. Not just the ones who supported me through my darkest days, but also those who brought me joy simply with their presence. Have I expressed my gratitude well enough, and do they know how important they are to me? I can’t fully say I do.
Can you think of someone in your life who deserves to hear your gratitude today? If so, send that text, pick up the phone, or simply tell them in person.
Who knows – it could be the most uplifting gift they received today, more than you’d ever imagine.
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